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1、離婚后男人比女人更痛苦Arecentsurveyhighlightedthefactthatwomentendtofaremuchbetterthanmenafterdivorce.近日的一項(xiàng)調(diào)查突顯了一個(gè)事實(shí),就是離婚后女人通常比男人好過得多。Thesurveyrevealedthatmensufferfarmoreinemotionaltermsthanwomen—andaremuchmorelikelytoletthemselvesgoandnoteatproperly.調(diào)查揭示,男性在情感上比女性遭受的痛苦要大得多,而且男性更可能自暴自棄和胡亂進(jìn)食。Inthey
2、earafterdivorce,48percentofmendescribethemselvesasfeeling'verylonely',comparedwithjust35percentofwomen.在離婚后的日子里,48%的男性稱自己感到“十分孤獨(dú)”,相比之下,只有35%的女性是這樣。Menoftenbearthefinancialbruntofdivorce,too,findingthemselvessupportingthefamilytheyhaveleftbehindandsomehowhavingtofinanceanewroofovertheirow
3、nhead,too.Iftheymeetsomeonenew,theyarethenfacedwiththeprospectofsupportingtheirnewpartnerandanyadditionalchildren.男性通常還要遭受離婚帶來的經(jīng)濟(jì)沖擊,他們不但要支撐之前的家庭,還要承擔(dān)自己新立門戶的開支。如果他們找到了新歡,他們可能還要撫養(yǎng)新伴侶和她帶來的小孩。Women,thesurveystated,finditmucheasierto'moveon'andleavethepastbehind,andhaveafarwideremotionalsuppo
4、rtnetworkoffriends.調(diào)查稱,離婚后女性“繼續(xù)前進(jìn)”、忘掉過去比男性容易得多,而且女性所擁有的能提供情感支持的朋友圈也比男性大得多。Asaresult,itisperhapsnosurprisethatmorewomenthaneverareinitiatingdivorce.TheUKfiguresfor2009showthat68percentofthe113,949divorceproceedingsthatyearwerestartedbywomen.所以,如今提出離婚的女性比以往任何時(shí)候都多大概也就不足為奇了。2009年英國(guó)數(shù)據(jù)顯示,2009年
5、的113949起離婚訴訟中,有68%是女性提出的。Morelong-termmarriagesareending,too—divorceinitiatedbywomenintheage45-plusbracketrosebyanastonishing30percentinthetenyearsbetween1997and2007.此外,更多的長(zhǎng)久婚姻正走向盡頭——45歲以上女性提出的離婚在1997年到2007年這十年間增加了30%,這很驚人。Leadingdivorcelawyer,AdamWitkover,ofBrossBennettSolicitorsinLondo
6、n,saysmanywomenfeeltherushofexcitementafterleavingtheirhusbands.倫敦布羅斯?貝奈特律師事務(wù)所的資深離婚律師亞當(dāng)?維特考佛說,許多女性在離開丈夫后感受到了涌動(dòng)的激情。Hesays:'Inmyexperience,womenseemtocopemuchbetteremotionallywithdivorce.Theyhaveawidernetworkoffriends,finditmucheasiertotalkabouttheiremotionsthanmen,andalthoughtheyarenotalw
7、aysbetterofffinancially,theyoftenusedivorceasthespringboardtoanewcareer.他說:“根據(jù)我的經(jīng)驗(yàn),女人們似乎能更好地接受和應(yīng)對(duì)離婚。她們的朋友圈子更大,因此要傾訴心情也比男性容易得多。另外,盡管女性的經(jīng)濟(jì)狀況并不一定會(huì)因離婚而變好,但她們常常借助離婚這一跳板來開啟新的職業(yè)道路?!?Men,ontheotherhand,finditmuchhardertoexpresshowtheyfeel,andareoftenmuchmorebitteraboutthesplittha