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6、pleItalkedtoaboutthebook.Everyonehasastorytotellabouthisownfriendships.Recently,a48-year-oldreportertoldmeabouthisclosestfriends,allofwhomhemetin?rstgrade.Theyhaveasetofrulesunderwhichtheyoperatetomaintaintheirfriendship.Oneofthemisthatanytimethreeofthemare
7、together,theymustcallthefourthfriendsoeveryonestaysincluded.SandraBullock(everythingIreadaboutmoviestarsistrue,right?)appar-entlyhasarulewithherfriendsthattheyincura?neiftheygoformorethan48hourswithouttouchingbasewitheachother.Theseareallstrategiestostaycon
8、nectedwithfriendsatatimewhenfriendshipsarebeingputtothetestbycompetingdemandsonourtime.Iwishtothankallthosewhohavespokentomebothinformallyandformallyabouttheirfriendships.ManystudentsattheUniversityofM