聰明人在工作場(chǎng)合不該說的話

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1、聰明人在工作場(chǎng)合不該說的話工作中，心急口快者很容易得罪人。所謂說者無意，聽者有心。因此要學(xué)會(huì)謹(jǐn)言慎行，盡量避免使用不適當(dāng)?shù)恼Z句，不說不該說的話。Don'tsay:"That'snotmyjob."Why:Ifyoursuperiorasksyoutodosomething,itisyourjob.Insteadsay:"I'mnotsurethatshouldbemypriorityrightnow."Thenhaveaconversationwithyourbossaboutyourrespo

2、nsibilities.不要說"That'snotmyjob."（這不是我分內(nèi)的事。）只要你的上司讓你做，那你就得做。我們可以說"I'mnotsurethatshouldbemypriorityrightnow."（我不確定現(xiàn)在是否應(yīng)該先做這事。）然后告訴老板你需要負(fù)責(zé)哪些。Don'tsay:"Thismightsoundstupid,but…"Why:Neverundermineyourideasbyprefacingyourremarkswithwishy-washylanguage.Ins

3、teadsay:"What'sonyourmind?"Itreinforcesyourcredibilitytopresentyourideaswithconfidence.不要說"Thismightsoundstupid,but…"（也許這聽上去有點(diǎn)愚昧，但是……）永遠(yuǎn)不要在發(fā)言前加上這種優(yōu)柔寡斷的前綴來削弱自己的觀點(diǎn)?？梢哉f"What'sonyourmind?"（你怎么認(rèn)為？）這樣可以增強(qiáng)你的可信度，讓你充滿自信地發(fā)表意見。Don'tsay:"Idon'thavetimetotalktoyo

4、u."Why:It'splainrude,inpersonoronthephone.Insteadsay:"I'mjustfinishingsomethinguprightnow.CanIcomebywhenI'mdone?"Graciouslyexplainwhyyoucan'ttalknow,andsuggestcatchingupatanappointedtimelater.Letphonecallsgotovoicemailuntilyoucangivecallersyourundivi

5、dedattention.不要說"Idon'thavetimetotalktoyou."（我沒時(shí)間跟你說。）無論是當(dāng)面說還是在電話里說，這話都是相當(dāng)粗魯?shù)摹Ｎ覀兛梢哉f"I'mjustfinishingsomethinguprightnow.CanIcomebywhenI'mdone?"（我現(xiàn)在正忙著要完成一些事情，等我做完了再來找你行嗎？）禮貌地向別人解釋為什么現(xiàn)在不行，并且提出稍后的約定時(shí)間。打電話時(shí)除非你能把所有注意力都放在對(duì)方身上，否則就選擇語音郵件的形式吧。