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1、Parenting?and?Children’s?Development?The?family?is?a?place?in?which?children?learn?to?interpret?reality.?Parents?serve?as?significant?interpreters?for?children?of?information?about?the?world?and?children#39;s?abilities.?They?are?children’s?first?teachers.?Parents?want?their?children?to?gro
2、w?into?socially?mature?individuals,?and?they?may?feel?frustrated?in?trying?to?discover?the?best?way?to?accomplish?this?development.? Parenting?styles?are?broad?patterns?of?child?rearing?practices,?values,?and?behaviors.?According?to?Diana?Baumrind,?four?types?of?parenting?styles?are?in
3、dulgent?(more?responsive?than?demanding),?authoritarian?(highly?demanding?and?directive?but?not?responsive),?authoritative?(both?demanding?and?responsive),?and?indulgent?(low?in?responsiveness?and?demanding?ness)? Children?from?authoritarian?family?are?often?aggressive,?fearful,?and?anxio
4、us,?they?often?have?weak?communication?skills.?Children?associated?with?authoritative?parenting,?are?happy,?cheerful,?self-controlled?and?cope?with?stress.?Children?from?indulgent?family?are?aggressive,?spoiled,?and?noncompliant,?they?have?difficulties?in?peer?relations.?Children?associate
5、d?with?neglectful?parenting?are?lack?of?self-control,?social?incompetence?and?delinquency. Children’s?emotions?are?often?affected?by?parenting.?Parents?are?kids’?first?important?teachers.?According?to?John?Gottman,?“Parents?are?kids’?emotion?coachers,?and?they?teach?their?kids?strategie
6、s?to?deal?with?life’s?ups?and?downs.?Even?more?than?IQ,?emotional?awareness?and?ability?to?handle?feelings?will?determine?one’s?success?and?happiness?in?all?walks?of?life,?including?family?relationships”(P20-21). So?it’s?very?important?to?use?good?parenting?at?home.?Authoritative?parenting
7、s?is?the?best?parenting?style,?because?it?is?good?for?children’s?emotion?development,?and?because?authoritative?parents?acknowledge?their?children’s?feelings?and?accept?them?unconditionally,?they?can?set?acceptable?standards,?and?they?help?to?promote?children’