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1、Whywelovewhowelove打破砂鍋愛到底真的有一見鐘情這回事嗎？為什么沒有呢？當愛情來了的時候，那一刻無論如何，情侶們總會找到他們相互惺惺相惜之處。這也許就像他們都曾經(jīng)讀過同一本書，都在一個鎮(zhèn)上出生一樣平常。同時，他們又會看到雙方性格上的互補。Haveyoueverknownamarriedcouplethatjustdidn'tseemasthoughtheyshouldfittogether--yettheyarebothhappyinthemarriage,andyoucan'tfigureoutwhy?Iknowofonecouple:He
2、isaburlyex-athletewho,inadditiontobeingasuccessfulsalesman,coachesLittleLeague,isactiveinhisRotaryClubandplaysgolfeverySaturdaywithfriends.Meanwhile,hiswifeispetite,quietandacompleteHomebody.Shedoesn'tevenliketogoouttodinner.Whatmysteriousforcedrivesusintothearmsofoneperson,whilepu
3、shingusawayfromanotherwhomightappearequallydesirabletoanyunbiasedobserver?Ofthemanyfactorsinfluencingourideaoftheperfectmate,oneofthemosttelling,accordingtoJohnMoney,professoremeritusofmedicalpsychologyandpediatricsatJohnsHopkinsUniversity,iswhathecallsour"lovemap"--agroupofmessage
4、sencodedinourbrainsthatdescribesourlikesanddislikes.Itshowsourpreferencesinhairandeyecolor,invoice,smell,andbodybuild.Italsorecordsthekindofpersonalitythatappealstous,whetherit'sthewarmandfriendlytypeorthestrong,silenttype.Inshort,wefallforandpursuethosepeoplewhomostclearlyfitourlo
5、vemap.Andthislovemapislargelydeterminedinchildhood.Byageeight,thepatternforouridealmatehasalreadybeguntofloataroundinourbrains.WhenIlecture,Ioftenaskcouplesintheaudiencewhatdrewthemtotheirdatesormates.Answersrangefrom"She'sstrongandindependent"and"Igoforredheads"to"Ilovehissenseofh
6、umor"and"Thatcrookedsmile,that'swhatdidit."RobertWinch,alongtimesociologyprofessoratNorthwesternUniversity,statedinhisresearchthatourchoiceofamarriagepartnerinvolvesanumberofsocialsimilarities.Buthealsomaintainedthatwelookforsomeonewithcomplementaryneeds.Atalkerisattractedtosomeone
7、wholikestolisten,oranaggressivepersonalitymayseekoutamorepassivepartner.However,thereareinstanceswherepeopleofdifferentsocialbackgroundsendupgettingmarriedandbeingextremelyhappy.Iknowofoneman,afactoryworkerfromatraditionalIrishfamilyinChicago,whofellinlovewithanAfricanAmericanBapti
8、st.Whentheygotmarried,thei
