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1、So,I'llstartwiththis:acoupleyearsago,aneventplannercalledmebecauseIwasgoingtodoaspeakingevent.Andshecalled,andshesaid,"I'mreallystrugglingwithhowtowriteaboutyouonthelittleflyer."AndIthought,"Well,what'sthestruggle?"Andshesaid,"Well,Isawyouspeak,andI'mgoingtocallyouaresearcher,I
2、think,butI'mafraidifIcallyouaresearcher,noonewillcome,becausethey'llthinkyou'reboringandirrelevant."(Laughter)AndIwaslike,"Okay."Andshesaid,"ButthethingIlikedaboutyourtalkisyou'reastoryteller.SoIthinkwhatI'lldoisjustcallyouastoryteller."Andofcourse,theacademic,insecurepartofmew
3、aslike,"You'regoingtocallmeawhat?"Andshesaid,"I'mgoingtocallyouastoryteller."AndIwaslike,"Whynotmagicpixie?"(Laughter)Iwaslike,"Letmethinkaboutthisforasecond."Itriedtocalldeeponmycourage.AndIthought,youknow,Iamastoryteller.I'maqualitativeresearcher.Icollectstories;that'swhatIdo
4、.Andmaybestoriesarejustdatawithasoul.AndmaybeI'mjustastoryteller.AndsoIsaid,"Youknowwhat?Whydon'tyoujustsayI'maresearcher-storyteller."Andshewent,"Haha.There'snosuchthing."(Laughter)SoI'maresearcher-storyteller,andI'mgoingtotalktoyoutoday--we'retalkingaboutexpandingperception--
5、andsoIwanttotalktoyouandtellsomestoriesaboutapieceofmyresearchthatfundamentallyexpandedmyperceptionandreallyactuallychangedthewaythatIliveandloveandworkandparent.那我就這么開始吧:幾年前,一個(gè)活動(dòng)策劃人打電話給我,因?yàn)槲耶?dāng)時(shí)要做一個(gè)演講。她在電話里說(shuō):“我真很苦惱該如何在宣傳單上介紹你。”我心想,怎么會(huì)苦惱呢?她繼續(xù)道:“你看,我聽過(guò)你的演講,我覺得我可以稱你為研究者,可我擔(dān)心的是,如果我這
6、么稱呼你,沒人會(huì)來(lái)聽,因?yàn)榇蠹移毡檎J(rèn)為研究員很無(wú)趣而且脫離現(xiàn)實(shí)?!保ㄐβ暎┖?。然后她說(shuō):“但是我喜歡你的演講,就跟講故事一樣很吸引人。我想來(lái)想去,還是覺得稱你為講故事的人比較妥當(dāng)?!倍莻€(gè)做學(xué)術(shù)的,感到不安的我脫口而出道:“你要叫我什么?”她說(shuō):“我要稱你為講故事的人。"我心想:”為什么不干脆叫魔法小精靈?“(笑聲)我說(shuō):”讓我考慮一下?!拔以囍钠鹩職?。我對(duì)自己說(shuō),我是一個(gè)講故事的人。我是一個(gè)從事定性研究的科研人員。我收集故事;這就是我的工作?;蛟S故事就是有靈魂的數(shù)據(jù)?;蛟S我就是一個(gè)講故事的人。于是我說(shuō):”聽著,要不你就稱我為做研究兼講故事的人。“
7、她說(shuō):”哈哈,沒這么個(gè)說(shuō)法呀?!埃ㄐβ暎┧晕沂莻€(gè)做研究兼講故事的人,我今天想跟大家談?wù)摰?-我們要談?wù)摰脑掝}是關(guān)于拓展認(rèn)知--我想給你們講幾個(gè)故事是關(guān)于我的一份研究的,這份研究從本質(zhì)上拓寬了我個(gè)人的認(rèn)知,也確確實(shí)實(shí)改變了我生活、愛、工作還有教育孩子的方式。Andthisiswheremystorystarts.WhenIwasayoungresearcher,doctoralstudent,myfirstyearIhadaresearchprofessorwhosaidtous,"Here'sthething,ifyoucannotmeasurei
8、t,itdoesnotexist."AndIthoughthewasjustsweet-talkingme.