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1、Inlife,weencounterawholerangeofstaleideasaboutwhat’ssupposedlyright,andwhat’swrong.Wehearsomethingssooftenthatautomaticallystartacceptingthemastruth.Sincemanyofthesethingsarenegative,whenwelatchontothem,theycanweighusdownforyearsonend.在生活中,我們聽到過各種各樣的關(guān)于所謂的對(duì)與錯(cuò)的陳詞濫調(diào)。
2、有些事情聽得太多了,我們就開始不知不覺地信以為真。由于這些中有許多觀點(diǎn)都很消極,那么我們?nèi)羰菍?duì)它們揪住不放,它們就會(huì)令我們一年又一年得萎靡不振。Here’sanothergreatarticlefromprofessional’lifehacker’MarkChernoff,inwhichhehelpsustoconfrontanumberofpotentiallydamagingliesheadon.這里有一篇職業(yè)“生活大師”馬克切爾諾弗的文章,他幫助我們應(yīng)對(duì)一些具有潛在摧毀性的謊言。Lienumber1:Aloneme
3、anslonely謊言一:獨(dú)身一人就意味著孤獨(dú)‘Alone’doesn’talwaysmeanlonely,and‘relationship’doesn’talwaysmeanhappy.Beingalonewillnevercauseasmuchlonelinessasthewrongrelationship.Ifthingsdon’tfeelright,takeabreak,andspendsometimewithnumberone—you.Findyourselffirst.Appreciateyourownwort
4、h.Andnexttimeyou’reinarelationshipthat’ssinking,you’llbepreparedtoswimtosafety.“獨(dú)身一人”并不總是意味著孤獨(dú),而且“談戀愛”也不總意味著幸福。獨(dú)身一人永遠(yuǎn)不會(huì)比一場(chǎng)錯(cuò)誤的戀愛帶來更大的孤獨(dú)。如果感覺不對(duì),那就休息一下,花點(diǎn)時(shí)間和你自己獨(dú)處一下。首先要先找到自己。欣賞你自己的價(jià)值。下一次,當(dāng)你身陷于一段日漸沉淪的戀愛當(dāng)中時(shí),你就會(huì)做好走出困境的準(zhǔn)備。Lienumber2:Happinesscomeswhenyouhaveeverythingyou
5、want謊言二:想要什么就有什么時(shí),幸福也就會(huì)隨之而來Tobehappydoesn’tmeanyoudon’tdesiremore,itmeansyou’rethankfulforwhatyouhaveandpatientforwhat’syettocome.擁有幸福并不是說要你滿足現(xiàn)狀,不再擁有更多的追求,而是要你對(duì)于你所擁有的心懷感激,并且耐心靜候那些尚未來臨的。Sometimeswegetsocaughtupintryingtoaccomplishsomethingbig,thatwefailtonoticethel
6、ittlethingsthatgivelifeitsmagic.Soappreciatetodayforallit’sworth.Thesearethegoodolddaysyou’regoingtomissintheyearsahead.有時(shí)候我們過于看重成就什么大事,而忽略了那些為生活增添了神奇色彩的小細(xì)節(jié)。那就感恩今天的一切美好。這些都將成為你在幾年之后想念的美好的往日時(shí)光。Lienumber3:Painissomethingyoucansee謊言三:痛苦是可以看見的Neverunderestimatethepain
7、ofaperson,becauseinallhonesty,everyoneisstruggling.Somepeoplearejustbetterathidingitthanothers.Youdon’tknowwhatgoesonbehindcloseddoors.Passingjudgementisanunnecessarywasteoftimeandenergy.永遠(yuǎn)不要低估一個(gè)人的苦痛,因?yàn)槭聦?shí)上,每一個(gè)人都在努力抗?fàn)幹R恍┤酥皇潜葎e人更善于隱藏苦痛。你并不知道他們背后發(fā)生了什么。對(duì)別人評(píng)頭論足完全是沒必要地在
8、浪費(fèi)時(shí)間和精力。Ifyouhavetimetojudgeotherpeople,youhavewaytoomuchtimeonyourhands.Getoffyourbehindanddosomethingmeaningful.如果你有時(shí)間對(duì)別人評(píng)頭論足,那你真實(shí)在是太閑啦。沉下心來去做點(diǎn)有意義的事吧。